Ever felt the shaky hands, sweaty armpits, and the dread that accompanies a serious bout of awkward silences?
Chances are, it happens in the presence of someone you’d like to sleep with but it can happen at anytime.
It can make you self-conscious and create a downward spiral of social awkwardness if you don’t know how to get a hold on it.
Luckily, you can get a hold of it. Watch the video below now – “2.5 Ways To Beat Awkward Silences & Never Sound Like A Dork Again”.
If watching a video is too much for you right now and you just literally can’t even, here’s a quick summary:
- You’re Not A Mind Reader: Even if you think a silence is awkward doesn’t mean the other person does. Keep your fears to yourself; saying it’s awkward guarantees that you will make it awkward for them.
- Calling Out The Moment: Put a positive spin on the silence without calling it awkward or uncomfortable. Get “Meta” on the conversation and ask them why they think great conversations sometimes go silent. Get curious and start a new thread about the conversation itself.
- Ask Intriguing Questions: If you’re not quick on your feet (which is totally cool – you’ll get there), have a few genuine questions stored in your head to ask when you want to revive the conversation.
We’re going to be doing a lot more videos over here. Follow the Naked Charisma YouTube channel and let me know what videos you’d like me to see. Enjoy!
Peace & Charisma,
Dalton K. Finney